Sharing your failures with others can provide you with different perspectives and insights. It can also help break down the stigma associated with failure and create a supportive community. I always have a saying, “Life is a journey and every day is a true gift.” Therefore, sharing your experiences with others is how we learn from each other and grow into better versions of ourselves.
Nobody likes to screw up, right? But we all do, knowingly or unknowingly. For example, you schedule an appointment and the other person doesn’t show up, they don’t call or text. You forgot to extend the invite.
Or you spend hours writing what you think is the best blog post to put on your website, FaceBook, or whichever platform you use – and no one reads it, not even a friend or family member.
Or you promise someone you’ll deliver something great – but it falls flatter than a pancake that misses your plate and splats on the kitchen floor.
If it hasn’t happened to you yet, don’t worry. It sure will.
Is failure a bad thing?
No, it brings us closer to becoming more successful.
If your primary goal is to make others happy, you’re in trouble. Why? Because you measure success by someone else’s standards. If you don’t measure up, you don’t want to talk about it. When you disappoint someone, you feel ashamed.
How much shame you feel reveals how strong your relationship is. So you might feel better hiding than being honest. Rather be honest about your journey and explain your experiences and how you got to where you are today.
Why you should share your experience of failure.
We already know that an amazing life doesn’t just happen by chance. It requires awareness, consistent effort, and the ability to enjoy what it is while working towards what you want for yourself and others. Let us be a helping hand to others who are stuck in their struggles on their journey. And let us share where we have come from to where we are today.
Help is at hand.
Having a coach to share your journey and help you overcome your failures is incredibly helpful and can make you a better person, ultimately leading you to success. Personally, I am a strong believer in The Word of God and find that reading it can provide guidance and direction in life. I remember a time when I was in a terrible car accident and the doctors believed I would never regain my sight. However, through prayer and faith in a Mighty God, I was able to make a full recovery without the need for surgery. Today, I am a living testimony of God’s grace and the power of prayer.
Don’t be afraid to say no.
It can be difficult to decline a new project or opportunity, but those who are the most effective know that it’s impossible to do everything all at once. If you’re unsure about taking something on, it’s okay to say no. I often remind myself that I need to trade short-term pain for long-term pleasure. This means saying no to something now so that you can enjoy something better later. At the end of the day, you’ll feel proud of yourself for prioritizing your time and making choices that lead to a happier life.
Today, I speak to many women who are going through a divorce about how I felt like a failure in the past because of my own divorce. I went through a lot of pain, but I knew that I had to endure it in spite of what I saw or felt in front of me at the time. I share with other ladies about my journey of pain at the time. Whereas, today, many years later, out of my pain, I have received pleasure, happiness, and joy in my new life for the past 28 years. I am a much better and happier person now.
A happy ending to your experience.
In the past, I felt ashamed of my failures. However, now I can confidently share my experience and provide guidance on how to overcome such situations. It is important to remember that there is always hope and a way out of the darkness. You can turn your failure into a success story and inspire others with your journey.
P.S Nehemiah 8v10
The joy of the Lord is your strength.